When desire becomes addiction: Out of the rush into feelings

GAY-TANTRA – When Desire becomes Addiction

Do you come home from work and immediately start scrolling through your dating app?
Are you restless, driven, and erratic even at work?
Is the desire for pleasure, the search for excitement and satisfaction driving you relentlessly forward? Into the bushes? Into cruising spots? Into clubs and saunas?
Real closeness, real encounters – hardly possible?

Addiction to sex, cruising, dating, or pornography consumptionare not moral weaknesses. They are often strategies to avoid feeling inner emptiness, stress, loneliness, or old wounds. The body is constantly on alert – always searching for the next stimulus.

This GAY-TANTRA format invites you to step out.

Not through restriction.
Not through control.
But through awareness, embodiment, and genuine connection.

✨ What to expect:

Understanding how addiction mechanisms work in the body, mind and nervous system
Out of your head – into your feelings
Learning to distinguish between desire and being driven
Mindful body and breath work
Honest exchange in a safe, non-judgmental space
First steps toward self-regulation, presence, and genuine closeness

✨ For whom:

Men* who realize: I don’t want to continue like this
Men* who are constantly online but rarely truly connected
Men* who want to experience desire as nourishing rather than empty again

Tantra does not mean ‘more sex’ here,
but rather: more awareness, more freedom of choice, more self-contact.

You don’t have to achieve anything.
You don’t have to prove anything.
You are allowed to arrive.

My offering to you:

1. Conversation (online or on site) € 90

An initial meeting to discuss your situation, questions, or challenges. We will clarify which formats are right for you and how you can experience desire, closeness, and mindfulness more consciously.
30 minutes
2. Individual session 'Awaken love for yourself' € 240

An intensive, body-oriented session to connect you with your body, your desire, and your inner experience. Perfect for recognizing addictive patterns and rediscovering conscious desire. (online or on site)
90 minutes
3-Session Package (online or on site) € 660

Deep transformation, sustainable integration, full support.
3 × 90 minutes, (€ 220/Session)
Optional: Deep Support Package € 50

Accompanying impulses, short reflections, breathing and physical exercises for home between sessions.

Note: All sessions take place in a safe, private space, either on-site or online. Payment can be made conveniently in advance by bank transfer or credit card.

Who am I to accompany you?

Between 2008 and 2015, sex addiction, cruising- and dating addiction were part of my own story.
From 2013 to 2015, this pattern intensified through chemsex and sex on crystal meth – until the moment came when I realized: this path is leading me away from myself.

Since then, I have consciously chosen a different path.
A path of forgiveness, repentance, truth, love, and presence.

I know from my own experience how subtly addiction can transform itself—how it disguises itself as freedom, pleasure, or functioning. And I know that change is possible when we begin to look honestly and arrive in our bodies.

That is precisely why I now accompany men who want to reclaim their lives, their sexuality, and their inner freedom without addiction – mindfully, with dignity, and at their own pace.

You can read more about this in my German written autobiography:
Ich habe die Welt erschaffen – Wie ich als Tantra-Lehrer ein Junkie wurde und die Liebe wiederentdeckte (Verlag Tredition 2025)
(Translation into English will follow).